Honey why you no have boyfriend

Why don't you feel for me anymore? I'm feeling fine, except the times I'm not. Why you so calm? I wanna shout. I wanna rip my goddamn throat out. We're just like two icebergs in climate change: drifting away. Why do you feel for me anyway? Envy is thin because it bites but never eats. Hey Debbie Downer turn that frown upside down and just be happy. Boring, neurotic everything that I despise.

We had some lows we had some mids we had some highs. You have made your bed, I know better than to sleep in it. Better off dead than the hell that will become of it.

I take pieces of myself from everyone around me. History Eraser I got drunk and fell asleep atop the sheets but luckily i left the heater on. We drifted to a party — cool. The people went to arty school. They made their paints by mixing acid wash and lemonade.

In my brain I re-arrange the letters on the page to spell your name. I touched on and off and rubbed my arm up against yours and still the inspector inspected me. The lady in the roof was living proof that nothing really ever is exactly as it seems. We caught the river boat downstream and ended up beside a team of angry footballers.

Kim's Caravan Watermarks on the ceiling. I see a dead seal on the beach. Guess it just wants to die? So take what you want from me. All I wanna say is…. Ode To Odetta I sing high, you sing low. I sing plain, you sing pretty. Everything you say sounds easy. A drowning flower caught my eye and I had to come on up for air.

I am normally pretty forgiving but only if you are. Climb aboard the wagon when it comes on through. Look over my shoulder when I talk to you. Pickles From The Jar I say dance, you say dance. I say France, you say France. I say Hugh, you say Grant. I say pot, you say plant. Oh, chalk and cheese, we rarely see eye to eye. I am dumb, you are smart. We are fifteen years apart.

I say ooh, you say aah. I am careful, you like scars. I like pickles from the jar. I say You, you say Am I. You like mornings, I like nights. You say Christopher, I say Walken. You love, I love Christopher Walken!!! I guess at least we have got one thing in common. Scotty Says In my wallet is a photo of you. The day we split I ripped it in two. Stuck it back together with glue.

Tear my posters down from the wall. Everything I owned I sold. In my pocket is a bottle of blue. I made a lot of money in my days. Spent it all on the current craze. Can't wait for you to go away cos i just crave that meagre taste yeah.

Boil it up, water in the saucepan. In a cup, drink it from a silver spoon. That MSG tastes good to me, i disagree with all your warnings. Well, the couple lives in the state of Georgia, and the age of consent is In other words, there are NO issues with the couple having a romantic relationship — legally.

As for Dralin, apparently, he is a car fanatic — and has a Camaro, that is like his baby. According to The Sun , he even lets her drive it sometimes. As we reported, Alana recently opened up about her struggles with living a normal life and going to school in Georgia. I got silent treatment for over a week for that one after he had his tantrum. Two weeks ago.. We had a blast.. I have been getting along really really good with one of the ladies, pretty much since we moved here.

During Bunco.. He literally stayed there drinking one beer after another until 2 AM.. He actually gave up after a while, and just said.. Ive gotta go to bed.. My Friend the wife stayed up and continued to host. I was embarrassed, because he was just too all about himself to realize he wore out his welcome. I tried to brush it off as him just being drunk, even though he hurt me terribly!! The next morning.. I spoke to him about it.

He refused to see how he was at all wrong in what he did.. ANY of it. This was something that happened TO me years ago…. I think my husband did it on purpose.. I really do, because as I said.. Newest thing.. I got a job working from home. YAY me!! I will be taking to people some on the phone.. One is a Shepard.. I know that sounds mean for me to say.. Since I am the one who wanted the dogs.. I cant mop my floors without them following me and messing it right back up, I have to walk them around the entire block every time they want to go potty..

But that s a whole other issue. He said NO.. Mind you.. LOUD barks.. Im pretty sure everyone in the neighborhood can hear them. He even admits that it hurts his ears.. Yesterday, I said again that since I start working here as of Monday, that I need to go get a runner since those are inexpensive..

He started screaming and cursing me.. I get punished for ever taking my own stand on things.. Like, It turns him off. And I get the silent treatment for a week or two at a time. When I talk to him about it.. I guess Im talking to you all, because I literally have no one else.

He tells me I am the problem in our marriage. I want to ask you all, am I? I will go get help.. Cheryl this broke my heart and I am in your exact shoes. I have been considering seeing a therapist because I truly believe my significant other has controlled, manipulated, and emotionally abused me to the point where I can no longer think on a norma rational level.

I very much hope you are okay and that you have gotten through this, or are getting through it now. I found out that my husband was cheating on me BIG Time and that means seeing woman in person and on social media..

A husband that truly loves his wife will never treat her this poor. Stop being a punching bag and fight back stand your ground with your foot firmly on that floor and stand up for yourself, I bet that will be a turn on for him real quick trust and believe that. Most importantly we need to love ourselves first before any man or woman can enter our lives. If we truly love ourselves we will never allow anyone to treat us like trash ever.. Hope this helps, thanks for reading.

All the replies have truth in them.. What ever it is that your calling a relationship here, seems more like a life sentence. The best of luck 4 the both of u. Did he end up seeing his destructive behaviour?

Hi Cheryl, You are not alone! You are worth so much more than this! You are dealing with at least a narcissist, maybe malignant or a psychopath. I suggest you watch the many You tube videos dealing with this subject. The above are all narcissists, to one degree or another, but if you are actually dealing with someone who is Psychopathic they have no conscience at all.

Familiarize yourself with this personality disorder so that you can better protect yourself from the toxicity. When you come out of the FOG you will realize just how damaging these people are and it is best to get as far away as possible.

How do I escape him, after 12 years and a child. He has nothing positive, constructive or even nice to say. I was a victim for 8 years ,,, got away in the end alive but physically and mentally scarred… you must take walk to a safe place. Stop your pain! You owe it to yourself to be happy. You need to leave him and get therapy. Your husband is abusing you. I believe your intuition is correct, did sabotage you with the people you were connecting with.

He feels threatened because he has an abusive personality. That is his problem alone, not yours. Especially if you feel there is a kid in danger.

Yes it will make him angry and he will blame you but this is what abusers do, they blame everyone else without looking at their actions. They have faulty thinking and the more you were to treat him well, the more entitled he will become, more demanding and volatile. I was in a relationship with one and honestly the worst of my life.

What a waste of time. Thank god I got out though. They deflect everything on you and everything they tell you is a fantasy story lol. Good day. Or just say something for the sake of it. This morning i asked for the time when i whoke up and he said 7 o clock but when i looked as my phone a bit later it was half past 8. Stonewalling and going offline or ignoring messages is really frustrating and distressing to the other partner. Definitely a cruel behavior and never good for a relationship!

So then I should just continue arguing after several hours of it already, having accomplished nothing but going in circles?

What if I need to go to sleep? What if the intensity of the argument escalates and I feel the safest thing to do would be to take a break to cool off? Is that considered stonewalling?? Or should we just beat the dead horse till one of us is catatonic?

Stonewalling is just going silent and leaving the person hanging. I have found out about I know of 3 people that are old enough to be our parents that the relationship seems odd.. I read txt messages where they went to eat.. It sure what happened there or how that came about but it happened. Yes definitely cheating on you.

You deserve better. Nope so you need to start planning and move on. Hope you find your true partner that will love u unconditionally and treat you how you should be treated.

I gave her 4 months to pay back which would have been December 2nd. I let it pass. February 2nd I called her again and she said she had filed her taxes and it would take 3 weeks. Mind you all this time I was expecting a phone call,a text or something to explain or to assure me that I would get my money back,but I got nothing. In the meantime she was writing rude texts in block letters.

I noticed from last September that she became distant after i had borrowed her the money,she would not comment on any of my posts on Instagram or just like anything i posted.

Not even a thank you for helping me in my times of need nothing. I just need advise on what to do with this person. Should I unfollow this girl because really at this point she has made me the villain and her enemy. Tee, I am sorry for your trouble with this immature and entitled loser. You need to only have contact with this person to get your money back and then stay away from this person.

You are were used. The world is full of these entitled fools. From that point, she no longer exists to you and she will be dealt with. First mistake was you let her borrow money, people borrow money for obvious reasons, um they are broke. Whenever you lend money do it with the intent of never getting it back. Of course you set a time frame and if they dont meet it then you know you cant trust that person to be responsible, again they are broke for reasons..

Some people never pay back the money. I say if you lend money make sure you have enough for yourself to say well if I lose this money no big deal.

Hopefully you learned your lesson and understand it is biblical to lend money with the intent of never seeing it again. Never put friendship and money in the same category, they dont work well together! Hi Tee, i have the same experience with a very close friend. When she asked me for financial help so she could have some money to spend going abroad for work, I di not hesitate. She avoided talking to me even though I did not mention about the money that she owed me.

I got tired sending my hi and hello and so I finally decided to block her. She is also a friend of my husband and she never bothered to reach out. Move on with your life. You were kind and thoughtful towards her. She was not. Move on with your life!! This is an interesting, if not somewhat upsetting article to me. I am in a new relationship with someone who i absolutely adore. I am an extremely loyal, devoted, and willing person in relationships. I do not feel the need to stray, nor do I value being flirtatious to anyone but who I am with, and I pride myself on my ability to admit when I am wrong at least, when I become aware of it!

I am, for the first time in my life, in a situation where I have one hundred percent trust in my partner, both in his faithfulness to me and his ability to function as a rational, responsible, competent, thoughtful and moral person, and I am more attracted to him than I ever thought possible to be to anyone. Long story short, I am abandoning my conditioned thought processes usually geared towards bracing for the impact of betrayal or abuse in a relationship to fully embrace the joy and security of a multi-dimensional compatibility likened to that of a soul mate.

So I have been feeling very misunderstood in this new relationship. Every text I send someone of the opposite sex is taken as an attempt to cheat, every reason I would have to communicate with other men is seen as unnecessary or a cover up of my attempted infidelity, every time I go back to my place after spending days or weeks at his, I am trying to be sneaky and do something wrong.

All of these things dealing with trust have always been issues for me because for years I had no idea I was autistic and I was blundering through life, hurting people without being aware of it, unable to explain or even understand myself why I constantly appeared so dishonest when I knew I was behaving in a completely transparent manner as far as I was able to.

Now I may not have as much patience for being falsely accused as I may have had years ago, so for that I have work to do, but I am struggling with this because it appears no matter what I say, how honest I am, how many times I have what looks to me like a perfectly good explanation for my behaviors, he rationalizes my words as being overly defensive, judgmental, he takes my direct way of speaking and reads into what I say, believing that there is some hidden meaning behind what I am only capable of vocalizing in the most literal sense, and when I have had enough of defending myself against things I feel are ludicrously false accusations, I let him know that I am done with the futile struggle and need some quiet time, and for a time i will not answer the phone for any reason until I feel I am more composed.

He says i cannot say sorry when I am wrong, yet i have done nothing wrong and feel that I should only have to apologize for getting overly emotional and lashing out by yelling and calling names, which is something i do, unfortunately, and i am not proud of it. This ties into his belief that i cannot be accountable for my actions, and that I am projecting my insecurities onto him or twisting it to where it appears he is the one with the problem, as I do believe he has trust issues and that his suspicions are unwarranted.

Thinking this would help to describe what I had been talking about, I contacted this man and gave him my number, requesting the link and telling him that I had been noticing some of his other posts about politics that were in alignment with my beliefs. He mentioned feeling as though he made a blunder because he was unaware that I was taken, and as I perceived no disrespect to my relationship I reassured him of that and we talked a bit about possibly meeting in the future to exchange information we collected over various topics that related to the video I was requesting.

It was my intention from start to finish to obtain the video to show my boyfriend so he had a better idea of what I had been talking about, nothing more. So, what is someone like me to do about this? All I could think of was to share my story in hopes that people could get a bit of perspective, and also for me to check myself a bit, as I am no stranger to being mistaken about things I feel confident about. Hello Perriann.

I actually have an opinion on this matter, but would first like to ask a couple of questions if you dont mind. First, do you feel like the content of this video that you speak of is deserving of the type of conflict that could have, and seemingly did, cause in the relationship? Also, not to pry too deep into the personal stuff but what exactly is it that your current boyfriend is deeming inappropriate about your interaction with the ex? For example, Do you tell the ex that you love him?

Or miss him? Im scared and dont want to be hurt or attacked anymore by someone I have to live with and dont know what to do…I dont get it or understand.. I met her at the wrong time. I was unemployed for 1. She is an addict; a bulimic 8mths clean , but also a former alcoholic clean 4yrs and drug addict clean 8yrs.

I grew up from a family of immigrants and I am very conservative myself. I would have never thought in a million yrs to date someone with this type of past, along with their sexual experiences of 1 night stands.

She treats me like crap!!! She gets mad if I attend church. I hate her sooooo much for taking advantage of my issues. The equivalent would be if each time I went to her place I walked in with a dozen donuts. Simply reason: 1. Easy target 2. Gives her control, which is the roots issue of a bulimic.

I was with someone for over 4 years he had 3 adult children he was much older then me by over 26 years older i was 28 at the time. I was really hurt by their commets one of my partner daughters said i look like a dog and i was a gold digger who was only after his money again not true. I was living in Scotland at the time 10 years ago and ended up having to move away because of the abuse i got from my partner 3 adult children. We ended up spilting up because i kept having ago at my partner because of his kids he never once stood by me i never once said to his children oi thats enough respect my partner here he used to let them talk to me how they like and let his children speak to me like this.

He eventurally dated a 18 year old with a child few months later but he never got any stick for that but i got years of abuse from his son who abused me on social media. In the end i reported him his son and had him blocked and came of facebook for good. I just want to say if anyone is in the same situation sometimes for your own well being and health its best to walk away no body as a right to disrespect you any any way or be rude and aggressive.

I think they was bitter when their dad divorced their mum many years before his dad met me we met on a dating website and they took their anger out on me. I no longer see any of his family no one deserves that treatment and name calling.

I was really polite and respectful to them but yet they was really horrible rude arggessive and mean to me to the point where i didnt want to see them it was like i was fighting a losing battle every time.

If i was in a relationship with some one and had kids speaking to my partner the way i was spoken to they would have been told. I think it was because i am from England and some scots dont like the English i have recently been back to Glasgow to see friends and sometimes i did notice that the Glasgowians dont like English people i was looked at funny way and some people from Glasgow had made some sniddy remarks about where i came from.

There was once a time i was in asdas with a friend of mine who got me a coffee from a machine and this woman came from no where and snatched the coffee from me and said this is my coffee get your own i was mortified it spolit the day for me. Politeness and manners in my eyes dont cost anything i was taken aback by some people rudeness in Glasgow.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I am dealing with the same issue. I take care of everything around the house and errands. He makes time for what he wants to do and very little time if non for what I want. He has begun to insult me telling me I am not doing enough around the house. I am not certain what else I can do. I feel like I am living his life, a supporting character to his story. I thought that what I was doing around the house was in support of his career and schooling and would be temporary.

Now I am starting to feel like this is what he expects from me. I feel like he thinks I owe him this because he makes the most money. I was starting two new jobs that I was excited about before the virus and was not going to need to really on him so much, but now with the virus I feel like I am being treated like a servant. The big issue is that I have tried to discuss the issue of inequality of household and life duties and it always turns into be an argument. I could really use some help with how to approach a conversation in a more productive manner.

She always makes statements like i got better clothes then you my moblie phone is better then yours she also says shes better then anybody else its dragging me down. We went on holiday together last year and she reduced me to tears with her inappropriate commets and remarks she said to me and others on the coach holiday we both went on. She was so bossy and rude to me while on this lovely holiday. Ive known her since school i am 13 months older then her to. I have told her numberous of times about her behaviour and shes to speak to me in a respectful way.

She has got other friends and they all said they dont go on holiday with her she can be really disrespectful and really rude to other friends. I injured my knee few years ago and because i couldnt climb up some steps she was making chicken noises to me and completely embrassed me in front of others shes always been quite disrespectful to people and to her family to.

Her dad pulled her up once about her behaviour while at her mum and dad house she said something behind her parents back and was pulling faces and sticking fingers up at them her dad knew this and he really had ago at his daughter in the kitchen in front of me she does really disrespect her mum and dad name calls them behind their backs its beyond awful i wouldnt dream doing this to my parents.

She will say things to me like dont talk to me talk to my hand and she will do this to her parents to. Shes had warnings at work to she works in a after school club and their been some parents and staff complaining about my friend attitude and behaviour at work. She still lives at home with her mum and dad even her dad has warned her in the past about her behaviour her dad said that she wont be living here if she continues with this behaviour shes not brought up like it and she is to respect her parents.

Shes 37 but yet shes makes really nasty remarks and shes had some of her friends like me in tears and walking away from her until she calms down. Ive known her from the age of She can be really nice person and asks how i am and how my family are but other times she can be really mean and disrespectful.

We have all told her about her behaviour on different times and days. Her manager and supervisor mum and dad have also told her about her behaviour they find it nasty and mean but yet she still does it.

I wouldnt dream of speaking to people in the way my friend does. Labels are important when dealing with Narcissism in particular Malignant Narcissism.